Imagine that someone randomly stops you on the street and demands to know who you really are. Not simple stuff like your name and occupation, but serious stuff like what you stand for and the principles by which you live your life. Would you be able to give a confident answer? Or just a blank stare?
During the busy day-to-day of the modern homo sapiens, few of us ever stop to consider such fundamental questions. This is a shame… Defining who you truly are and who you aspire to be can be the difference between being a ship on a steady course or a piece of driftwood randomly tossed around by the tides of life.
The best way I’ve found to answer these questions is to draw up your own constitution. A constitution is formally defined along these lines: “A body of fundamental principles or established precedents according to which a state or other organization is acknowledged to be governed.” It might not be self-evident, but a body of fundamental principles is a very cool thing to have in your life.
Why not give it a go? Take a piece of paper and write down about five fundamental principles according to which the ideal version of you would be governed. If this exercise really makes you think, you might even want to commit these principles to heart so that they are always at hand to keep you on track to the best version of you.
PS: Why should you take lifestyle advice from a random guy on the internet? Good question. Take a look at the effects that these guidelines had on my life and decide for yourself.